Women Thoughts

Confuse. Completely lost. What is love? What is passion? What means when you say: miss you? What is to like someone? What is to be interested in somebody? What means to be beautiful to somebody? When you wish to be with somebody? What should we expected from the other one? What is marriage? What is to be in a relationship? What is the distance? What is to be close or around? Those are some questions that I have been asking me a lot.

I don’t have answers; I don’t have a way to follow. I just feel that I am up in air. If, do I like you? Yes, I do. I wish to live with you everything that I have on my head. Sometimes it is just to seat I do a picnic, sometimes go and dance all night. It also could be some workout together. I loved when you used to stimulate me. I wanna travel around the world, I wanna you call me and tell I am forever yours, I wanna to receive flowers, a later, a box of chocolate… I wanna simple things.

If you are one of my girl friends, you know about what I am talking about. We just wanna to feel special to somebody. A person who tells you everyday how much you are beautiful and nice. This week a colleague at my job told me something that really make sense: “Women: we  need to tell them when they change the color of the nail polish, when they cut  hair, when they did small things that sometimes even her friends didn’t pay attention”.

Women, usually want a guy that is a beast and a prince. But nowadays my dear friends, it is really rare. If you find a guy like this one, you have to take care of him really well. Don’t show to your best friend, your sister, your cousin and even your mom. The things are complicated my dear friend. We are living in the jungle, especially if you are from Belo Horizonte.

This weekend I heard a history about a guy that he was with two girls, kissing both at the same time. It is incredible. It just make that we think that we can’t want so much, we don’t need to expect a lot, and if we find someone you have to keep for you as the best prize ever. Although, I will tell you something, when I see and I hear the histories from you I make a conclusion that a lot times it is better to be alone than with someone.

Now if you are guy and you are reading this, we are not complicated. We don’t care if you leave to go play soccer with your friends or if you went to the bar o drink a beer. We also like to go to the mall spend some money and drink a beer or a glass of wine. You like to arrive home and watch TV, relax… We do like to do the same. Because those things I say we are not complicated as you think. And like I said before we just wanna a guy that is a beast and the prince all in same time.

Tips: open the door of the car, try to help, ask what she wants to do, watch the drama movies (sometimes), talk about her hair, nails, clothes, lipstick… but never, never and never tell her that she is fat, even if you are sure about it. If you do it my brother you can ask to leave and don’t ask for kisses and hugs. The only thing that you will gain is a kick in your butt. Because we just wanna be like an wonderful woman.